I’ve had my fair share of broken heartedness. Who’s to tell you that the person you meet today will be the one that you spend the rest of your life with? I’m only 16. But why does it feel as if it’s such an urgency to dive into a relationship so young? Its movies, romance novels, and the love you see around you. Those are a few possibilities.
My decision on all this is to wait, with help from my Mom..
I honestly now can say that I don’t get the point anymore. Sure, you love the chase. The pure infatuation. But than what? I’m sure you don’t plan on marrying that person. Am I right? It’ll just be another memory to look back upon. It can hurt to think about it or smile, depending on the kind of person you are. To look at either the good side or bad side.
Let me share a conversation that I’ve had with my mom just recently about love. I never really knew this about my Mom before, but she is a pure hopeless romantic. My Mom and I have really deep conversations, I wouldn't trade them for the world. We talked about how her and my Dad gotten together and how much work it took for them to get to the point of love that they are now. I can't really explain it, but let me just say that the way they look at each other is as if they're seeing each other for the very first time..
The advice she gave me is to wait because she doesn't want to see me get hurt. And how she just wants to me to be happy with myself than trying to make someone else happy. I never really talked to her about my past relationships, but its as if she already knows.
I'm not going to lie, I'm still hurting to this day. Time heals all wounds. Right? Slowly, time will heal. I love my Mother dearling. And I'm so glad she is helping me through with every step of the way to feeling whole again.
-Lisa
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